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How to How

In Today’s time where everything is so fast and messed up, very few have time to even think where and what they are doing, even lesser has the ways to adopt it. Decision which are made on incomplete information or false facts will always lead to disaster. You have to develop your mental ability in such a way that you can see situation as it is rather than putting your perspective.

No doubt we are leading the highly materialistic way of life, nothing wrong in it as long as this approach isn’t making us crazy. still there are some souls which are struggling to make a way out of it, despite number is less, as per spiritual law nature always support and help these kind of souls. everything has positive and negative sides depending on who is using and how.

1- always check your thought on first place, it is source of your action, when your thoughts become too strong, it will take form into action. Thoughts comes on the basis of your inputs, what you are providing to your sensory organs more especially eyes and ears. anyone can take control just by these two.

is it tough in todays time? NO, not at all, definitely it’s need little practice to develop self control and will. it is nothing new, this is well known fact from ancient times.

2- second most important is companionship. being surrounded some way or other it is also great source of altering your mind. there thoughts will impact your decision. is it only reason people said choose people wisely, do not believe blindly. here it is worth mentioning that we must take precaution while judging people, if someone is having wealth, nice education well dressed up, nice looking body, we tend to follow that person, which is not right in all case, more specially in todays time. it is always better to be alone with some real good books rather than having surrounded by non sense people.

Please be aware of proverb when we say that “one good book is better than hundreds friends”. actually it is true when books was chosen wisely. it was true in olden times when books was written by genuine and enlightened people but this is not the case in todays time. it is always much better to be illiterate than ill- educated person.

3- wait and listen some one to whom you can trust ( no doubt there are no one better than your parents and siblings in this case :)). do not run after something to grab rather silently work and wait for it, before maturity of anything it always gives you pain only, and by this you will conclude your decision.

4- find something which you really want to do, not just for money but for your own soul. however small it is, it will bring you peace, like painting, music, dance etc..
5- purity and honestly- always remember it’s doesn’t matter how foolish it sound but these two are fundamental to run life, consciously and unconsciously.don’t throw your dignity and integrity in the name of freedom, you were free and you will be 🙂 it’s not related to your body and neither you have to prove to anyone.

6- avoid unnecessary interaction or activity in the name of the modern or open mindedness. it will caught you in trap for no reason. you may cry in the name of the modern world, but it is as feasible as anything else and it will help you tremendously to protect you in many ways.
here i want to clear you that it is for time being, when you become ready to handle all these worldly pull you can involve if time and situation require, some times running away is also a solution, not a weakness 🙂

7- Try to devote some time just for yourself, like meditation, japa or any ritual which you like for your self. slowly it will develop and evolve your conscious. it will also help you to engage yourself.

There is nothing Dark like things in this world, it is your collected karma and tendencies through which you born time and again, try to understand and workout these. here everybody has different path and destiny, neither anyone is greater than you neither small. just play your role honestly and its done. use your body to serve in good way and if you don’t want to serve then at least do not initiate wrongs things – it is also a kind of serving


To be continued: Karma and destiny misconception …………………………………………


Understanding the Divinity

if there is any word which is mysterious than word “Mysterious” itself is the word Divine. from bliss to unknowable and unexplainable everything comes under this single magical word Divine. if there is anything which nearly all religion says that we must achieve this goal in this human form of life. there is huge importance is given on human form just because this form of life is very very difficult to get. we gone so many different levels of consciousness with so many different forms that it is really hard to achieve this human form.

Divinity is not a word it is state which is easy to achieve yet very few is capable for this. there are different levels of human understanding, not everyone is capable to absorb or understand this mysterious knowledge but it does not mean that they should exclude from this ultimate truth, at – least in this land (Bharat or india) it is so. people from this land have been studied and researched all human except from food to clothing. they designed methods for every levels of people consciousness, from ritualistic approach to pure meditative and tantric approach. every method is unique in its own way.

In this age (Kali yuga according to Vedic time divisions) people’s understanding is not that much developed for spiritual realm they developed much for gross level and for today’s world problem at large extent this is also the cause. purely gross development is always dangerous. for this age Vedas recommends chanting (japa meditation ) for human beings just because of our gross understanding of reality. it does not mean that all other methods are not attainable or not good it is just that it is not easily adoptable in today’s world.

Divinity does not lie in the word it is evolution from gross to subtler and at last being with ultimate reality, to achieve this we have to pass some test. we have to be egoless to start, which itself is bigger challenge for humans. now a days we already have become so intolerance :), just kidding but its true that we have much ego than previous any generation, in hindi one saying is there that “Paisa juth bulwata hi hai” means with money you will get habit of lying and with habit of lying ego will come and with ego a lot of others thing will follow. here i want to clarify that nobody is opposing the money, it is just you have to be alert to observe your mental state.
it is much complex than infinity and much easier than Zero, how wired it is :). As we develop only frontal lobe, which is only for our survival. that survival have become so big now that we can not think beyond this and it is only cause for our world problem. we need to choose to evolve rather than survive, survival will stop one day but evolution will not, survival contain very basic things we have to choose something bigger for this human form of life.

“I am that Which is not”

One day you will ……..

One day  you will

I lost myself in you

So that you can live yourself,

I don’t regret anything except

You regret my companionship

I don’t know how to express

It doesn’t mean I don’t love you

I never said I love you

It doesn’t mean I don’t care

But now everything gone

I lost myself in you

So that you can live freely

No need to fight anymore

Even if we want we can’t

Now I am no more

Still I will help you, I will watch you

Just let me help

Now I don’t want anything

Except you……………..


“I will get what I want in next life for sure if not in this life”

Human life, amazing gift from supreme, if you remove human touch from human life which is contradiction then it is really amazing, just imagining this simple fact gives you a sense of aliveness. In core of human life is compassion, love without this we are nothing. everyone wants to be loved, feeling of belonging, feeling of care, this feeling of togetherness which makes us alive, which force us to thrive, gives us motivation to do something more.

Anything in this nature needs source of energy to blossom, in same way love is source of energy of humans to blossom after all we also bound by nature’s rule :). Human life is amazing in one more respect, you can plan and have desire but it’s necessary that it will work or fulfill your desire. We have a famous quote “Everyone cannot gets everything“

Does everyone gets this precious gift especially in form of human? Not everyone is so lucky, their karma is not good enough to find this precious gift of human specially now a days. So what about those who do not find this. Those who understand this, will embrace their life by accepting this truth and will try to fill their life by passion. Finding a passion is like finding your true love. You will be much happy, alive with full of hope. You will embrace this fact. While doing good karma you will get what you want, at least in coming life if not in this life.

There are second category people, who will always complain about their life, misery, they will blame others for their failures. You will hear by them saying karma is full of shit, it is stupidity, unluckily if you believe then you are such an old-fashioned. Fact is they cannot understand and see truth. They are so blind, they cannot see beyond this life, for them body is their limit and it is everything.

I always believe, what your mind can think or imagine it is already happened or happening or will happen and impossible starts beyond your mind.

“I will get what I want in next life for sure if not in this life”

just suffering for nothing

it is my best friend story i learned a lot of things from him and i am hoping same for you.

Nobody knows how it happened but it is true. One child, which was happy, intelligent, and spark to achieve something, want to do something for his family, but now situation is very different, frankly totally opposite. He is directionless, feeling less and soulless, if you are not able to feel happiness or grief then you do not have soul. You are taking oxygen but for dead body.

He is introverted person for unknown person, if he know you or you know him it is very different experience, you cannot feel bored if he is with you. However, very few knows what he is really. Like behavior and character is two different things, it also applied on him. He is loneliest person on earth if he is alone but for you he is most entertainer and true friend.

His childhood spent very normal, nothing special. One thing is different from others, he got a lot of love from outside like schoolteachers, friends rather than from home. He also learnt all basic things from themselves or by his friends.

His childhood spent happily, no complaint because he was getting love from somewhere. However, as he moved another city he had to leave everything, at that time there is nothing like today’s time, like you have Facebook or Orkut. New city new people, fresh start for everything, for an introvert person it is not an easy task at least when there is very strict restriction on you to whom you should talk and to whom you should not.

Finally, everything vanished, he tried everything to make normal but failed miserably. He poured himself into world of books. For years, he managed but unknowingly he put himself in to depression, but it was too late when he realized where he is.

He was into severe depression, fighting from this is not an easy task. If your mind is ok, you can fight but you have to fight with your mind itself then it is like hell. You have to encourage your mind every minute for every task whatever you do. All this took a lot of important time from his life and his career. He is struggling in his career from last 2-3 year.

Currently he is trying hard to get normal. My best wishes to him……………