True story of real change – The Journey

True story of real change

It is story of tremendous journey from disaster to happy life, from tears of sadness to tears of happiness, from alcoholism to discipline. It is real happiness when you saw your known or loved ones doing well. What they were and what they are now. I will try to give a glimpse of this journey!!!

It is story of the man who was brilliant in his own way, cracked one of the prestigious exams more than three times, studied there and stood first but as you know, with fame and power a lot of unwanted things also comes, until – unless your mind is not prepared to deal this anomaly. So he was not exception, he involved himself in drugs, alcoholism, and many more and it didn’t took too much time from brilliant to total failure & disaster.

It took him more than five years to realize what he has become and what path he is following. He was not just making himself useless & full of sadness but he was also giving trouble people around him.

When he started to think it was the first step for him to change his directions and the first thought in his mind was seeded by his own mother. She never accepted defeat and always tried with whole heartedly for his son. It was difficult but not totally impossible. Through the help of his very very close and tested friends, his mother and sister designed a roadmap to change.

All friends designed step by step way, from where we should start- starting is the key point to achieve this goal. In this project of change they utilized smallest minute details like his affection for his sister, have tremendous interest in traditional science. They knew that his affection for his sister is unconditional. So slowly and gradually this war went to his destiny. From tears of the sadness to tears of the happiness. It took nearly 6 months to see the change and more than a year to make it an uninterruptible habit. He started by simple chanting of the Gayatri Mantra (Indian tradition) just for 15 minutes, which itself take a lot of time and effort to start. Initially it was totally horrible situation but slowly and gradually it became a part of the life which gives him tremendous benefit and happiness. After this small step next step was to involve him in a constructive work. They helped him to change their thinking process by stopping unnecessary interaction which impact his mind in negative way like TV, internet habits going to unnecessary places instead of all these he involved much more with his family with his sister and parents. It was one of the major steps to protect him from going back to same stage. Third step was to help him to achieve same level what he was before, in this his sister helped him a lot by researching and intentionally involving him in her own work.

So After nearly more than a year of hard work he is doing fine, still he is working on but definitely with huge improvement. I think he now understand what is real reality of life, what you saw in beautiful poster or in beautiful slogan, may not be true. He now understands very well that how important it is to protect ourselves from invasion of negativity and from nudity. Until unless our mind is not perfected by some means (Yoga or meditation which definitely takes time) till then we have to protect our consciousness from these type of invasion.

In simple words we have to protect ourselves from these days chaos by this you are not protecting just yourself but also helps in stopping the negativity to spread. It’s nothing less than karma yoga J

 

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One Zero is murderer

It is real story from Sirsi, Karnataka. I gave this name “one zero is murderer” because of its fitting purpose in this event. My friend is currently there with family. His mother told this event to my friend.

There is one family in this small town. Small family with one child. Father was doing job in bank. Honest and reputed. He was taking care of all loan sanctions process. One day he passed one loan of six lakh, loan sanctioned by the bank but there was just one mistake he added one extra zero on paper.

When bank found he went to court, before that he and bank asked to person (who got this loan) if he got money or not, he denied. Bank filed case against him, after fighting in court bank won.

He and one other person (his coworker) had to pay money equally to bank. However, in this whole process he lost his job, his house and all savings. Currently he is living in rented house with his wife and his son. After this incident, whole family went on tremendous change in every respect. My friend was telling me despite all this they are living happy and positive life.

Always try to live life.

Power of Time

There was spark to achieve; there was spark to fight,

There was smile for everything; there was courage to change,

However, time is too strong to mold, it’s not folding an arm,

To defeat, to win, to die, to live,

It’s in time, with time, for time

Time is winner, winner is time

I accepted nearly everything, just nearly…

letter from a friend – don’t give up

Note – I remove name and some personal information.

Letter from a friend
Today October 23, 2014 at midnight alone sitting in a chair with fear of future, regretting past, yes I am doing which is totally prohibited if you really want to live life in a positive way.

But if I was able then why should I do this, I am struggling for a single ray of hope.
Sometimes I feel I am a dead man who is still doing living things taking breath but with no feeling of any happiness, whatever I do is act of a dead body.
It’s not that I became like this in a single day, when I looked back I realized I was dead long back but I never realized, how a dead man can realize. Something happened when my mind and body was tender, I said something from my heart in anger to someone and that’s words became reality, when they(referring as a person) must take care of this with love and understanding they showed that they don’t care, it’s like if you are hungry you will eat whatever I will provide but over the years it went so wrong that everything is now dead, it’s nothing that I will not take care of them yes of course I will but frankly as a responsibility not as a love, I think they also know this. Even if I want I wouldn’t able to do anything because I am dead now.
I always ask why me, what I have done in the past or even past life? I think it is totally unfair you are suffering because of your karma but you don’t know which karma? It is like you have to accept this as blind truth.
Now it’s just a surviving issue, surviving of dead man, it’s amazing, now in this world dead person also want to survive but for what reason, why this feeling of aliveness, it’s just a dead wish even this wish is not from heart, how a dead man can wish from heart.
I feel I am totally alone, no one is here to love me. I spent all my adolescent in just sadness, even without knowing it, I tried but failed to have any feelings. Now smiling is also a task for me, I know if I want to fit into society, then I have to smile, it’s a fake or real it doesn’t matter because no one want to hear your sadness.
But I am hopeful that one day I will become alive, I am hopeful that ‘one day’ will become soon in my life, I am hopeful I will feel everything once again, I will smile from heart, I am hopeful that soon I will meet someone so special in my life that my past pain is nothing in front of her love.

Regards

SORRY FOR NOT RESPONDING

Hi everyone, I have to say this because one of my friends said to me and I think same is true for everyone here also.
He said “you are not responding any comment or mail or follow up, is it not good. You have to respond with proper manner and words”.
Initially, I took it lightly but when he went I gave a second thought and realize it is not good, it’s my fault.
So finally here I am openly saying sorry and I promise I will try my level best to respond to everyone activities. last to days I tried to respond some of them.

Thought Pain

Thought Pain
This world came in my mind whiling reading, how thought can alter your mind and cause pain, which can be much painful than any physical pain.
Why so much pain in this world, no body, everybody is suffering from some kind of pain, whether it is physical or mental. The difference is- physical pain is visible everybody can see but thought pain is totally invisible it is so close with you yet nobody can see this. Everybody has so much chaos.
Sometimes I think it is just our perception by which we are suffering or it is our mistake or it is really our fate, we have to face it to learn.
When I see a child I see two state either happy or crying, exclude sleep  . Do they also feel pain by thought or there thought is so innocent that it cannot create pain at least for child. Here perception of pain can be different may be he feels but representation is different – crying can be just an indication.
When you become old enough to say and put logical mind behind everything then we start to feel pain by words. When your heart starts crying you cannot do anything except to feel it for that moment. When your heart cry’s it is far more painful than any bodily pain. You know everything about pain but still you can’t do anything, it’s not body it’s thought.
When you feel the love, yes I know it is very special thing, it does not do anything magical with your body rather it does something very special in your mind and as a consequence it changes your thought. Same thing happens with thought pain.
When you are not able to accept something by your heart then it becomes thought pain.it can be disastrous but if you are intelligent enough it can also open a window to understand yourself, real life. I know I am little bit philosophical here but you have to bear this little bit, you know sometimes it can be helpful 
If thought or feeling can generate pain so it can also cure this, some genius out there says that think opposite but it is not going to work, it is like you are stretching a string with both hands and assuming it will join both ends.
I will also not say that forget about this because if you do then you will never learn any lesson from this and as a consequence you will face the same situation again.
I would rather say try to accept this, I know it’s hard and if you accept then where is a question of pain but let me assure you it will not be as easy as I am saying. Initially, it will also create pain but it will reduce your pain. This painful blessing help you to accept, so when you are ready to accept then try to move on after all it is only way and that’s why you born.

Inner War

Inner war

War – horrifying, dangerous but sometimes it creates a platform for new things, new start fresh start. Especially if it is happening inside you – we call it inner war.
We are in Inner war for nearly everything, whatever we do? Am I doing right, if I am honest then can I expect honesty from others also, why world is like this why there are grief sorrow, violence, pain hatred, loneliness, confusion.
I am writing this because I am also in the same category. I also have inner war of many things, and so millions others.
Inner war happening inside can give you many things but same time can be dangerous if you don’t know when you should stop and should take a decision, it can lead you where everything become obsolete. It is constant learning from your inner war. As per my experience you should question things but at same time you must have courage to accept things as it is, sometimes it is only way to end this war. You have to know that every individual is different and you cannot expect yourself from someone else, you are different from others, which differentiate each other.
If you are good and honest keep yourself as it is and in my opinion try to be more but don’t expect same thing from others, because it is not going to happen, there will be time when people will think this is your weakness and try to utilize this but you have to understand, this is you not someone else so be it but same time there is one suggestion as per my experience there is difference between good person and foolishness so be good not fool.
I also face this idea being perfect, everyone, everything, every time should be perfect but the problem is there is no such thing like perfection, you can improve, every time but you cannot be perfect in anything, most you can achieve is near to perfect- it itself so far. The best solution is don’t try to be perfect, just try to achieve perfection. You have to embrace this imperfection in everybody, every situation. This gives you your persona, and so as you embrace yourself you must learn to embrace others also, by this actually you are embracing imperfection of others.
Life itself a is journey it cannot be a destination, so it is up to us what and how we want from this journey. Others people are with you in this journey but only for some time. Some for very short time, some for a long time but ultimately it is your journey.
Those who are not able to do this practice, embracing imperfection, will not be able to go ahead in their development, journey will become so difficult that you will stop before reaching anywhere. This is what world look like it is full of imperfection but when you embrace this it will become your perfect world.