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True story of real change – The Journey

True story of real change

It is story of tremendous journey from disaster to happy life, from tears of sadness to tears of happiness, from alcoholism to discipline. It is real happiness when you saw your known or loved ones doing well. What they were and what they are now. I will try to give a glimpse of this journey!!!

It is story of the man who was brilliant in his own way, cracked one of the prestigious exams more than three times, studied there and stood first but as you know, with fame and power a lot of unwanted things also comes, until – unless your mind is not prepared to deal this anomaly. So he was not exception, he involved himself in drugs, alcoholism, and many more and it didn’t took too much time from brilliant to total failure & disaster.

It took him more than five years to realize what he has become and what path he is following. He was not just making himself useless & full of sadness but he was also giving trouble people around him.

When he started to think it was the first step for him to change his directions and the first thought in his mind was seeded by his own mother. She never accepted defeat and always tried with whole heartedly for his son. It was difficult but not totally impossible. Through the help of his very very close and tested friends, his mother and sister designed a roadmap to change.

All friends designed step by step way, from where we should start- starting is the key point to achieve this goal. In this project of change they utilized smallest minute details like his affection for his sister, have tremendous interest in traditional science. They knew that his affection for his sister is unconditional. So slowly and gradually this war went to his destiny. From tears of the sadness to tears of the happiness. It took nearly 6 months to see the change and more than a year to make it an uninterruptible habit. He started by simple chanting of the Gayatri Mantra (Indian tradition) just for 15 minutes, which itself take a lot of time and effort to start. Initially it was totally horrible situation but slowly and gradually it became a part of the life which gives him tremendous benefit and happiness. After this small step next step was to involve him in a constructive work. They helped him to change their thinking process by stopping unnecessary interaction which impact his mind in negative way like TV, internet habits going to unnecessary places instead of all these he involved much more with his family with his sister and parents. It was one of the major steps to protect him from going back to same stage. Third step was to help him to achieve same level what he was before, in this his sister helped him a lot by researching and intentionally involving him in her own work.

So After nearly more than a year of hard work he is doing fine, still he is working on but definitely with huge improvement. I think he now understand what is real reality of life, what you saw in beautiful poster or in beautiful slogan, may not be true. He now understands very well that how important it is to protect ourselves from invasion of negativity and from nudity. Until unless our mind is not perfected by some means (Yoga or meditation which definitely takes time) till then we have to protect our consciousness from these type of invasion.

In simple words we have to protect ourselves from these days chaos by this you are not protecting just yourself but also helps in stopping the negativity to spread. It’s nothing less than karma yoga J


I am M-A-N first before MA

I am M-A-N first before MA

Yesterday I returned to Hyderabad. It was something very unusual journey for me because generally I don’t find people but this I met an unmarried 54 years old man. Small in height, white hair, rudraksh mala in hand, around the neck. Originally he was from Tamil. He knew more than eight languages.

In my coach, there was a group of 40 to 50 people returning from Varanasi. All of them from same place. One person told me, if south Indian goes to north India it is mainly for kashi or Allahabad. He started taking about today’s generation parents, how they are so busy, they do not have time to feed their children. Then move on girls then life style. He told that he is not married. Marriage was fixed but sudden loss in business and girl denied him from then onwards he is not ready for marriage.

He was well educated, he was M.A (Master of Arts) in English. He told a lot of interesting story I would like to share one of them with you. Story is like this…………

There was one person well educated but unemployed he was trying very hard to find something better but failed miserably. Due to this, he had very long beard, one day he was very ill, he went to hospital, and doctors admitted him. Next day he was reading English newspaper, one doctors saw this and asked what is your qualification he told I am M.A in English, doctors told why you didn’t tell me we can arrange separate bed for you he told I am M A N (MAN) before MA.

Put MAN first before anything else J