In Today’s time where everything is so fast and messed up, very few have time to even think where and what they are doing, even lesser has the ways to adopt it. Decision which are made on incomplete information or false facts will always lead to disaster. You have to develop your mental ability in such a way that you can see situation as it is rather than putting your perspective.
No doubt we are leading the highly materialistic way of life, nothing wrong in it as long as this approach isn’t making us crazy. still there are some souls which are struggling to make a way out of it, despite number is less, as per spiritual law nature always support and help these kind of souls. everything has positive and negative sides depending on who is using and how.
1- always check your thought on first place, it is source of your action, when your thoughts become too strong, it will take form into action. Thoughts comes on the basis of your inputs, what you are providing to your sensory organs more especially eyes and ears. anyone can take control just by these two.
is it tough in todays time? NO, not at all, definitely it’s need little practice to develop self control and will. it is nothing new, this is well known fact from ancient times.
2- second most important is companionship. being surrounded some way or other it is also great source of altering your mind. there thoughts will impact your decision. is it only reason people said choose people wisely, do not believe blindly. here it is worth mentioning that we must take precaution while judging people, if someone is having wealth, nice education well dressed up, nice looking body, we tend to follow that person, which is not right in all case, more specially in todays time. it is always better to be alone with some real good books rather than having surrounded by non sense people.
Please be aware of proverb when we say that “one good book is better than hundreds friends”. actually it is true when books was chosen wisely. it was true in olden times when books was written by genuine and enlightened people but this is not the case in todays time. it is always much better to be illiterate than ill- educated person.
3- wait and listen some one to whom you can trust ( no doubt there are no one better than your parents and siblings in this case :)). do not run after something to grab rather silently work and wait for it, before maturity of anything it always gives you pain only, and by this you will conclude your decision.
4- find something which you really want to do, not just for money but for your own soul. however small it is, it will bring you peace, like painting, music, dance etc..
5- purity and honestly- always remember it’s doesn’t matter how foolish it sound but these two are fundamental to run life, consciously and unconsciously.don’t throw your dignity and integrity in the name of freedom, you were free and you will be 🙂 it’s not related to your body and neither you have to prove to anyone.
6- avoid unnecessary interaction or activity in the name of the modern or open mindedness. it will caught you in trap for no reason. you may cry in the name of the modern world, but it is as feasible as anything else and it will help you tremendously to protect you in many ways.
here i want to clear you that it is for time being, when you become ready to handle all these worldly pull you can involve if time and situation require, some times running away is also a solution, not a weakness 🙂
7- Try to devote some time just for yourself, like meditation, japa or any ritual which you like for your self. slowly it will develop and evolve your conscious. it will also help you to engage yourself.
There is nothing Dark like things in this world, it is your collected karma and tendencies through which you born time and again, try to understand and workout these. here everybody has different path and destiny, neither anyone is greater than you neither small. just play your role honestly and its done. use your body to serve in good way and if you don’t want to serve then at least do not initiate wrongs things – it is also a kind of serving
To be continued: Karma and destiny misconception …………………………………………